Dwelling on the past?

From: His Wife
To: Me
Subject: I did something SO stupid!

I went back to tommy and since it has gotton so bad i am ready to blow my freakin brains out just to get away!!! i should have listened to you!! i just want you to know that i admire you for getting away and keeping that crazy man out of your life.pray that i can get the strength that you had to get away!!!!


From: Me
To: His Wife
Subject: Re: I did something SO stupid.

If going back to him once is stupid then I'm pretty damn dumb. I went back to him so many times I've lost count. Hopefully you get the strength to move on.

I'd just think about your kids. What my step brother said about your daughter concerned me. It seemed to me that the relationship between your daughter and him was a little more than what it should be.
It's okay though we are moving out of state soon. Joe got a job offer somewhere and we've been approved for a loan to buy a house. We are going to start looking next month.

I truly hope you can get out of there. That boy is not healthy or right in his head. It rubs off quickly.

BTWHas he said anything about the kids lately? I know he owes a lot of money in back child support which I will gladly cancel if he agrees to sign over rights. My lawyer has the papers and I can have him mail them to him. So far I think he is up to $6000 I could always call and check but the last time I did it was like $5000. I know he is supposed to pay $500 a month for them. Not that I care really. We don't need the money but he could end up in jail if he doesn't pay it.

Honestly the only way to get away from him is to move on. Move so far on that there is no turning back. That is what I did. Do it as soon as possible though because he will mess with your brain and trust me it takes a long time to feel normal again! He sure does make you feel like you don't have any choice but to be with him. To tell you the truth he isn't worth it. He isn't cute, smart, rich or a good father (well as far as I know).

Good Luck : /